I wasn't given a pass. I just took one.
I just told my wife that I had sex with another women and now we are talking about her sleeping with a guy with me watching or joining.
My husband didn't cheat but very unexpectedly told me if I wanted to have an affair I could.
I have myself a pass after he cheated. he just doesn't know
I had an ex of mine cheat and he told me I could sleep with a friend of mine. So I did. Needless to say he is my ex for a reason because it ruined trust