Have you gained weight since you got married? Is it affecting the relationship?
When me and my X got married he told me he would leave me if I got fat. It's over 30 years later and I am smaller and hotter than when we got married. He gained 60.lbs lost his hair and I divorced him. loser.
i was 110 when i got married and gained weight to 155. my ex told me i was fat and unattractive, he would cheat on me if he had the chance
I'm a female... I was a really toned girl... I played college sports... I gained 15 lbs-he wasn't attracted 2 me anymore. He left me after 2 years
Leaving your spouse if they gain weight?! That leaves us with one sad conclusion. People have forgotten what LOVE truly is. People shouldn't get married unless they love someone so much they would willingly die for that person. That's LOVE.
I have gained 45 pounds since I've gotten married I've been married a year and gained it first 6 months its horrible my husband just told me yesterday we're getting gym passes today. It depressing
I'm not married, I'm engaged, but I have gained like 40 ponds since we met. It's causing problems now cause I'm so unhappy with myself that I push him away
I have gained about 50 lbs since I got married 3 years ago, my husband has maybe gained 10 lbs. He loves me still and just says "more cushion for the pushin."
My wife caught me txting someone, I stopped immediately and she lost 30lbs
My wife put on weight and it strains our relationship but it's because she has issues with it and puts them on me! The weight came from my 2 daughters so I'm fine with it
I have been with my wife for five years she has put on about 45 the fist year love her the same would not ask her to do anything about it
If a guys want the girl to keep a lower weight then the guys have to keep a lower weight as well
In all honesty my husband told me that if i get fat he will still love me but he won`t be attracted to me and won`t want to do me
Me and my fiance discussed this one day. And he said he'd still love me until I gave up and didn't care. Then he would be done
I've been undergoing fertility treatments and have gained 20 lbs in 3 months from all the estrogen. I'm still not fat but now a little over weight and my husband tells me every day to go to the gym and asks me how much I weigh on a daily basis. It's horrible.
my sister gained weight after she got married.her husband left her for a skinnier girl..he's such a jerk !
We have friend who's wife has gained 30 lbs and is still gaining. They have been married for a year
My husband and I have both gained 30 pounds since being together. I love him more than anything, but I am no longer attracted to him.
I think in those situations the best thing to do is to help your spouse stay healthy with you. If you exercise together and help each other eat better.
My wife gained weight after having two babies and I am still very attracted to her. I want her to loose weight so she can be healthy and have more energy but I think she is beautiful skinny and just as beautiful bigger.
You'd never believe this as I hate saying it, I gained 35 pounds after my first son. Never got it off and kept it off. My husband (soon to be ex). Left me, said he couldnt stand the fact of having sex with me because I was so big. We are now getting a divorce and im pregnant with his second. :(
I gained weight, through my marriage. Wife claimed she loved it but became unattractive to me sexually. Which led to her cheating on me.
had my engagement broke off cuz he and hs parents were worried i would gain too much weight after kids!
It's hard, cuz my hubby tries to sabotage my weightloss so he doesn't lose me to another man...his insecurity affects me cuz he's always worried...
I gained 60lbs in 7 years, and he never seemed to care. It did/has effected me by me being self conscious. I'm trying to lose at least that much, and i'm half way there
In sickness and in health. When you get married you should commit to them just because they are hot and skinny. You should love them for them
I think weight definitely effects marriage. The opposite of gain to. Try dealing with an eating disorder with your wife. It sucks
I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for 4 years and turned to food for comfort and I gained 40lbs. Needless to say he left me, and then I lost the weight! It was a double win!
5 yrs of marriage husband let himself go after he got off the navy he is only 28yrs old n he has chronic back pains and he is my best friend but im not attracted to him anymore im freaked out by how fat people are in this country so in the hs we eat really good n healthy so I dont know what happened :-( if he keeps gettin bigger we will def divorce
My wife has gained weight and I am ok cause its not a lot but its noticeable she is not ok with it so now there is no more naked time.
My husband and I have a rule that he always has to be thirty lbs heavier than me. Whether he gains it in muscle or fat or if I have to lose it.works out great
My husband and I have been married eighteen years. When we first got married I weighed 120 pounds and now weigh 137 pounds. We fight about my weight all the time. He has told me on numerous occasions that I need to lose the weight. I do go to the gym and have a personal trainer trying to get back in shape. I am over 40 and my trainer said it is harder to lose it. So its not like I am not trying to lose it. My husband would have left me in a heartbeat if it wasnt for our kids.
It's for better or worse! Communicate with your spouse and work together on it! My Hubby and i have been married for 8 yrs and we gained weight but we talked and worked together and lost 50 lbs all together. It didn't hurt our marriage! We still wanna jump each other's bones!
Me and my spouse quit doin drugs and we both gained alot....like they say we,love each other no matter what.threw thick and thin....literally :)
Gained 15 pounds in 2 years since married , I'm 21 and I'm always getting crap from my husband makes me sad
Ive been with my husband 8 yrs. Im 5'3 and when we met and got married i was 115 pds. Im now 207. My husband is 6'4, 200 pds, and all muscle. He tells me everyday that Im beautiful. What if your spouse was in an accident and couldnt walk? If love is conditional for you, you shouldnt get married.
And this is why there are those of us struggling with eating disorders.
My buddys wife gained 90. They are divorced. Wasn't cuz of weight but her lifestyle changed. I.e. self esteem and never moving off couch
From the psychology point of view.. If your spouse is so preoccupied with weight, you're more likely to developing eating disorders.
My husband would not let me eat while pregnant lost the baby
My EX told me if I hit 200 he would divorce me. The jerk lied so I lost the weight and filed for divorce on our anniversary.
We got married and within 2 years hubby gained 40 lbs and I could care less hrs still sexy to me
My wife was 160 when we meet . Been married 9 years and three kids later she is almost double that. I love my wife but her weight definitely affects the bedroom activities becuz she is self conscious
I have been married for almost 4 years and with two kids I have gained almost 50 lbs. I feel so horrible that my poor husband has to sleep with this. He's so wonderful that he would never complain. He's always so supportive of every diet I have tried but yet the weight remains :(
what you were talking about on the radio this morning is exactly why girls have eating disorders it doesnt matter how much weight someone gains. it doesn't determine their personality. I had a very severe eating disorder almost to the point that I died our screwed up society
My husband told me that if i were to gain weight he would leave me. i told him if it were the other way around i wouldnt leave him unless it was way bad
When my husband married me he told me to not ever gain lots of weight or he'd leave me.. he ended up gaining 50 pounds!!