Are you a "kept woman or kept man" ? I went thru my divorce while i was pregnant. It was finalized 3 months after my daughter was born. Let's just say she wasn't planned.... Omg, im pregnant and getting a divorce!!! Almost 8 mo pregnant with twins a boy & a girl & my husband left me to go be with his mom in New York packed up & he is gone My sister was 7 months pregnant, when found out her husband was cheating on her..with a friend that she always hung out with My husband and I attempted reconciliation after our first separation. He came back, stayed 3 months got me pregnant and yes I was on birth control. Then coincidentally he left as soon as he found out claiming he was wrong to have come back in the first place. Messed up right?? He now denys the child is even his! I work full time and we have a 2 yr old together now. Im homeless and barely surviving. :( Pregnant with 2nd baby. He decided he didnt want the responsibility of 2 kids. Left me with a six month old and 4 months prego. Filed for divorce when I was 4 months prego because he gets drunk with his buddies and stays out all night, and doesn't take any parental responsibility. I was 4 mos pregnant and had an 8 month old baby when I left my ex I was 6 months pregnant with my second baby when we split up for financial reasons. We both had to move home to get some money saved up. On thanksgiving right before dinner, he posted pictures of him and his new girlfriend in her under-ware on Myspace. That is how I found out about her and I filed for a divorce. A topic that is still painful to me. I had a 6, 4 & 3 year old, 4 months pregnant with our 4th child when my husband said he was leaving me for his 21 yr old secretary. He said I would never understand the "connection" he had with her. I remember looking at my little kid's wondering what I was going to do. Of course, 2 weeks before the baby was to be born he wanted to "reconcile". Nice try buddy! My wifes ex cleaned out their savings and left her 8 months prego. I met her and take care of the baby like my own. Now he wants something to do with the baby